Taking what I want

I've decided I am no longer waiting to see what life has in store for me.  I'm going to just go after what I want.. for instance.. I had the most awesome.. mind numbing, toe curling massage you could ever want.  I will no longer be dictated by needs unfulfilled.. I will take control of my life and take care of me.  I am now the most important person in my life...All the others have left me.